When you go through an abusive relationship... it changes you, and it changes the way you relate to people.
It seems like a key part of you is missing and you can't do thing right anymore.
You can't bond right. You can't relate right. You can't trust right. And you can't love right.
And opening up to a new relationship is challenging, scary and it takes time. And it seems like you're doing it all wrong all the time. But you're not.
Manipulation can really screw up someone's mind big time. And not only while you're being manipulated, it has its after-effects.
You lose your identity, your sense of self. You've been changed, shaped, manipulated into something else for so long you no longer remember who you used to be. It's crazy, I know.
You no longer know what really you and what's the person someone made you be.
Imagine going through all that, daily, while inn a relationship with another human being who has their own feelings, emotions, expectations and trauma. It's hella scary.
But I can tell you: There's no other way towards healing than facing it all with a kind and brave heart.
You know, living is scary. Living with trauma is even scarier. Living with trauma and dealing with other people's baggage is insane. But it's the only way.
Not everybody is out there to get you.
Some people just want to love and be loved back.
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Que seja infinito enquanto dure.
It seems like a key part of you is missing and you can't do thing right anymore.
You can't bond right. You can't relate right. You can't trust right. And you can't love right.
And opening up to a new relationship is challenging, scary and it takes time. And it seems like you're doing it all wrong all the time. But you're not.
Manipulation can really screw up someone's mind big time. And not only while you're being manipulated, it has its after-effects.
You lose your identity, your sense of self. You've been changed, shaped, manipulated into something else for so long you no longer remember who you used to be. It's crazy, I know.
You no longer know what really you and what's the person someone made you be.
Imagine going through all that, daily, while inn a relationship with another human being who has their own feelings, emotions, expectations and trauma. It's hella scary.
But I can tell you: There's no other way towards healing than facing it all with a kind and brave heart.
You know, living is scary. Living with trauma is even scarier. Living with trauma and dealing with other people's baggage is insane. But it's the only way.
Not everybody is out there to get you.
Some people just want to love and be loved back.
_
Que seja infinito enquanto dure.
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